"Single LIFE"

"being happy alone , in order to be happy in a relationship'

if you've once been hurt , you sort of have the " ill stay single until mr.RIGHT just comes along" attitude... a bad relationship can really scar a person its your choice wether or not you let "him/her" (person from the past) have a hold on not only you but your heart .. its OKAY to have a guard up because the LORD knows i wear mine with pride... However you can NOT stay single forever .. which leads me to the topic " You have to be happy with YOURSELF in order to be happy in your RELATIONSHIP"

this is mostly for ladies , because we are the ones with the most insecurities and trust issues ..we are the ones who let men bring us down and become scar'd some even for life... find yourself ladies know yourself inside and out... become one hundred precent familiar with your feelings , abilities, disabilities , know your WORTH , being HAPPY does not mean looking for a new relationship the minute you come out of one what your REALLY doing is masking your emotions trying to find a quick,new relationship instead of trying to find and solve the problems .who's to say if you don't FIX the problem you once had in your past relationship it wont effect your new one? .. your not fully healed your most likely just seeking attention that you can find in YOURSELF.. you don't need a man / female in your life at all times.. taking breaks are always good if your problem was loneliness or low self esteem then getting into a relationship won’t solve your problems but it will only mask them and make you more vulnerable to depression right after the breakup...

COMMUNICATE , COMMUNICATE , COMMUNICATE , COMMUNICATE

The Female or Male who JUMPS right into a different relationship right after a break up , is basically soul searching for someone who can equal up to YOU ... he or she is most likely missing the love of affection you once gave them...

Being happy does not consist of having a significant other , ask yourself before them , where were you?? , how did you keep yourself entertained?

live care free, find ways to support yourself , have a steady set of friends around , laugh until you cant breath ,smile as wide as you can, sing like no one can hear, and live like theres no tomorrow.....

IN ORDER TO BE HAPPY WITH ANOTHER PERSON , YOU MUST BE HAPPY WITHIN YOURSELF...


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