Friday, July 30, 2010

HOW TO TRUST AGAIN...

.Many people get hurt in the world , things happen people are trifling , people do one another wrong ... in the journey of learning to trust again TRUST YOURSELF to be able to trust another ... Recognize the need to trust again Some people fool themselves into believing that they do not need to have close relationships in their lives. However, human beings are social creatures, and need one another. Without trust, you cannot have a close relationship. Without a close relationship, life can seem empty , all because you feel as though that one person did you wrong , that all others are capable of doing the same , not everyone is weak , not everyone is greedy , not everyone is trifling ... Be patient with your progress, After you have been betrayed it can seem like a life long challenge to learn to trust again to allow yourself to take another being serious , to NOT accuse , to NOT judge... all these things because of ONE SINGLE PERSON? there are millons , even billions of people in the world . Give yourself the time and space you need to ease back into trusting another person again ..trust yourself to be OKAY if you are betrayed in manyyy cases the fear is not of the other person betraying , back stabbing , two timing you its the fear of being strong enough to handle betrayal... don't go soul searching for someone to complete all your needs not one person is perfect in this world ... if they don't fit your needs they can LEARN to fit them...

let go , and let god...

there will ALWAYS be someone better , there will ALWAYS be someone who is willing , there will ALWAYS be someone to pick up where you left off .. its your duty to let them in...

in better wording

EAT THAT SH*T UP , GET STRONG & MOVE ON..

3 comments:

  1. So true. But sometimes you get hurt so many times its like WHY TRUST A SOUL .. not saying you won't ever trust anyone but it takes time for wounds to heal .

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