who said pregnant women aren't pretty?

my Pregnancy Vlog ...

my gift to you! Merry christmas :) introduction of Bentley/Hunter!!

Just like you i was suprised too, Zadasia pregnant?? noo can't be... Of course my future, my education, and my life changing flashed before my eyes.. But i snapped back to reality just as quick as i fell for what people WANT me to become... I am still a FULL TIME student, i am employed working 4-5 times a week and will reach e v e r y goal i have set out for myself.

I chose LIFE over anyone's temporary disappointment unlike most people i will strive to do any and everything necassary for my son Me and my childs FATHER are still together and happy . My initial reaction was tears, only because i wasn't sure yet how to feel, shorty after realizing i was blessed with life those tears turned into smiles. Still with my mind unmade, i set a doctors appointment where i saw my angel for the first time at 8weeks i never knew i could love someone who couldn't yet see,hear,breathe,or speak as much as i do my son. I cried out of disbelief to hear his little heartbeat was unreal and at just 8weeks my little prince swam and squirmed as if he was a full-term baby.

My mindset changed drastically after realizing i had life inside of me, Parties? no longer concerned, the actual smell of alcohol would make me gag. All i could think about was " What will be my son's next development"... The first stage of my pregnancy was horrible, Being a person who never really got "sick" it was a horrible feeling to throw up after EVERY meal, every snack, every drink, sensitive to any smell... All i could think of was when it was going to be over, after a longgggg 14weeks i began to see slight relief i went down to throwing up once a day :D.


Being at this stage in my life, changed me ALOT for the better all i constantly think about are ways to better not only my son but myself. Around 11/12 weeks i saw my little boy's arms being active sucking his thumb and making little flutter movements. My emotionals are always at a alltime high, From my Boyfriend,bestfriends, and Mother i dont know who gets it worse.. Some things i found myself crying abt throughout this pregnancy is The thought of disappointed, Betrayl by friends, Not being able to give my son the world, WEIGHT GAIN, along side with any and everything my boyfriend did.BUT im all better now :D


At 19 weeks and 6days i found out my little angel was a boy, Again i cried, his daddy, godmommy, and friends we're too excited. Being they were the one's telling me the entire time he was a boy. And to their request he was with a big wanker ( as the doctor said ) [pounds baby's hand, "THATS MY BOYYYY'] Except for Uncle Darrin , he wanted you to be my babygirl "ZOE" He'd be upset to know we've been referring to him as "Zoe" since we found out, his reaction when i told him was " You and Dane better have another damn baby, i thought it was a damn girl wtf" lmao... now he loves you and talks about you all the time :) " i can't wait for bentley to get her, he's gunna call me unc and im calling him neph i can't wait "...I've had only a FEW set ofFRIENDS that i consider my family who have been the best supporters i could ever ask for and i LOVE them to death for that reason and many more.. Ive found out who my true friends are and i couldnt be more pleased with the few i have...i am STILL the same strong minded, goal oriented, straight foward, dream lurking ZADASIA!!! and will make it my priority to reach every goal set for myself... a life is a blessing never a setback atleast in my eyes... lets win baby ; I probably shouldn't even be crying while typing and reading over this a milllllion times, but ::shrugs:: i guess this is a emotional stage in my life... I wouldnt do it over or make any corrections if i had a giant red sharpy... im grateful for all the blessing placed in my life and i guess Gods plan was to bring my babyboy into mylife when he did, i wont question it... Just know if he brings it to you , he'll bring you through it..im not here to ask for sympathy or ask for any type of judgement frankly i really dont care ( sorry if that was a little blunt) I LOVE my son.. i dont know why he happened but im glad he happened to me.If your reading this, you probably found out about my pregnancy on Christmas day, i've been planning our annoucement of pregnancy since my 14th week,im now 22 weeks pregnant, and my little boy will be here April,28th,2011 Soo HERE YOU ARE... :)




Bentley Romello Miller / Hunter Romello Miller ♥

Word's probably aren't enough to express my feelings for you , your still a little too small to understand how much you mean to me. Since Mommy found out about you i've promised myself to make it my responsibilty to give you the world by any means.. The first time hearing your little heart beat mine stopped, the first time i saw your little arms and legs wiggle mine got weak, the first time i saw your mouth move mine got numb, When i found out you we're a boy i couldnt believe Zadasia could say I'll be soon having a Son... You've changed Mommy's life for the better and although you we'rent planned you've become the best Gift god could have gave to me. You have ALOT of supporters here for you already and your not even here yet, ALOT of people a love you and have stuck by my side throughout this pregnancy when i felt i had no'one .. .. Im sure when we get to see your little face in person we'll fall inlove more..I know this will be tough but Mommy is prepared for the good and the ugly. You can come to be about any&everything, mommy and daddy are your number one supporters,i hope you know i've never and will never look at you as a mistake, your amazing in my eyes.you have a couple of angels looking down on you as well babyboy... If i have to DO IT ALL just to GIVE to you then that'll be just what i'll do. I hope the world can see how wonderful you are.. I can't wait to meet you Handsome... Mommy & Daddy love you ♥



"You came from heaven shining, breath of god still fresh on you, the beating heart inside me crumbled at this one so new.. No matter where how far you wander for a thousand years or longer, i will always be there for you ...right there with you.. Your're so amazing you shine like the stars, Your're so amazing the beauty you are, You came blazing right into my heart you're so amazing you are...you are.."

lost close friends...??

LOST 2 OF MY CLOSE FRIENDS BEFORE THE NEW YEAR, BUT !!!!







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Thankful

This year has really given me alot to be thankful for, My family being one of those things although we may be a little dysfunctional i couldn't ask for a better set of supporters. My VERY SMALL circle of friends these past few months ive learned who real friends are i wouldnt change them for anything all the laughs arguments fights only brought us closer. My Man who has given me one of the greatest gift i could have ever asked for in my life. and responsible for my dimples always being visible .. I just want to say thank you and i love you for being in my life...

i never laughed so hard in my LIFE.

how im feeling right now.

"but it should say, MIDTERMS, CLASSES, PAPERS."

..

&HEARTS.

CAUSE I KNOW I WAS SO BLESSED TO FIND YOU
I'MA SHOW AND PROVE DO MY BEST TO PLEASE YOU
PULL YOU TOGETHER WHEN YOU FEEL THAT YOU'RE ABOUT TO FALL APART
MAKE UP FOR THE LOVING THAT I NEVER GAVE BEFORE
YOU'RE THE ONLY THING THAT MAKES SENSE IN MY LIFE
IF WE FIGHT IM GONNA AKE IT ALL RIGHT
YOU SHOULD KNOW THAT IM IN LOVE WITH YOU AIN'T NEVER GONNA LEAVE
DONT WANT NO'ONE ELSE BUT YOU CAUSE YOUR MY EVERYTHING...

I KNOW I SAY IT OFTEN BUT BABY I'MA CHANGE IT
I'VE SEWN IT UP YEAH IM DONE YOU HAVE BEEN SO PAITENT
IMA SHOW YOU THAT YOU ARE MY WORLD
ACTIONS DO SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS
SO HERE I GO BABY,READY TO SHOW YOU BABY
YOU'RE ALL I WANT AND NEED,YOU'RE ALL I KNOW BABY
DID YOU KNOW YOU HOLD THE KEY TO MY FUTURE
CANT LIVE WITHOUT YOU KNOWING WHAT IT'S LIKE TO
L O V E YOU.


you're all i know baby
did you know you hold the key to my future
can't live without you knowing what it's like to love you

WORK.

loyalty and thangs.

snake   
[sneyk]
noun, verb, snaked, snak·ing.
–noun
1.
any of numerous limbless, scaly, elongate reptiles of the suborder Serpentes, comprising venomous and nonvenomous species inhabiting tropical and temperate areas.
2.
a treacherous person; an insidious enemy. Compare snake in the grass.


Over the past week or so, you may have been seeing me rave on about "LOYALTY , SNEAKY PEOPLE,FRIENDSHIP,ETC" i really do not understand how a "friend" can cross a person so close to them for someone who is just emerging in the picture,how a female can deal with a man she was well aware her "FRIEND" had dealings with, isnt that something first graders learn, isnt that in the book of things NOT TO DO.. truth is a guy will always be a guy and in some cases a female will be a female a snakey,conniving,backstabing, SNEAKY,person only looking out for themselves. People will befriend you JUST TO EASE IN ON WHAT YOU HAVE, it is your own personal choice wheter you'd like to let them in, you see there are always tactics us females use we have the knowledge of KNOWING A PERSON before you actually KNOW THE PERSON , when you EXPECT something from someone it will not be surprising when you find out their snake like habits in fact it becomes amusing it baffles me how a person can claim LOYALTY to much but couldn't pin point the definition if handed a dictionary, how a female can speak to a person yet speak negative things about the person that makes you WEAK, females are like savages who prey on others doing good and will try to bring them down. PEOPLE RESPECT HONESTY not snakes like ways you are DISGUSTING, and soley equal to NOTHING in life . :) always remember ladies it;ll always be the ones in your prom pictures , went to school w.cha , that'll wanna creep in your mans jeep...

NOW FOR THE FELLA'S...

females preach so much on how much of a good women they are when 9 times out of 10 they are all CREATURES. truth is they judge you before even knowing you now i am not one to bash females but i have come across so many scandelous females in my life i know their ways and exactly how they meneuver.

*scan·dal·ous   
[skan-dl-uhs] Show IPA
–adjective
1.
disgraceful; shameful or shocking; improper: scandalous behavior in public.
2.
defamatory or libelous, as a speech or writing.
3.
attracted to or preoccupied with scandal, as a person: a scandalous, vicious gossip

i understand why SOME of you walk around with the "BITCHES AINT SHIT ATTITUDE" once you find a goodgirl fellas KEEP HER. because they are VERY hard to find. i understand why some treat females like the slimey creatures they are because they deserve it ,these are mostly the ones CRAVING FOR ATTENTION, THIRSTY, WONDERING YOUR POCKET INCOME WHETHER THAN WHAT YOU CAN MENTALLY SHOW THEM, THE ONES ALWAYS GOSSIPING, NAGGING, DRESSES UP FOR OTHERS (partying) MORE THAN SHE DOES FOR YOU, OUT DRINKING EVERYOTHER NIGHT, etc etc. keep your eyes open and GRASS CUT.




SIDE BAR. for all of you females who DO NOT know the correct meaning of loyalty HERE IT IS.

LOYALTY;the state or quality of beng loyal,a feeling or attitude of devoted attachment and affection, faithfulness dependibility strong feeling of support or allegiance..


TO BE CONTINUED....

The 12 Fuck You's Of Facebook

The 12 Fuck You's Of Cell Phones

im back...

As you all may or may not know, ive been rather absent from my blog for a while NO I HAVENT FORGOT ABOUT IT, i've been ridiculously busy dealing with school,homework, and everything else college brings. STORY OF MY LIFE however much has been going on well atleast from what im concerned.Taking 16 credits is no'joke ill get back to entertaining you babies in no time :)

FAB , KAT STACKS,BRIAN PUMPER lmfaoo

this made my whole WEEK , not day ....

#RANDOM how do u stay so strong..im strong as well but smh the way ua ppear to be is over th e top strong...your mind set..opens up a variety of situations or things that can be handled..in ways..and ir espect that mama
respect that mama!...sometimes pll dont realize how somethign so lil can mean something so much to pll..ur blogg..girl i be reading it..and it helps me prob more than others ...and that happens wif me id help n know what to say to pll den to me id black out as if i dont kno the right..i jus dont wanna kno the right for myself..but thats when u gotta snap out of it and listen to ur own advice ....lool...i give it when respect due..most girls are afraid to appericate a girl with her mind straight in things in order..idk why love jus cudnt be spreaded to one another but me i gotta give credit mama..
yay blogg time!! lol...love em

and make sure all of you viewrs follower her page on twitter <3
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I cant stress enough how much i love and appreciate feed back , im open to new idea's topics and all .... and this message was sent to me what seems RIGHT ON TIME , unfortunately im going through a crisis ( not so much of a CRISIS but ya know im dramatic ) but its a situation i can admit had me a little off guard and sad , which got me to thinking and current blogging ... thank you so much :) i REALLY appreciated this <3 <3 <3 <3

Why are guys intimidated by attractive females?

So while sitting thinking , this question came to mind "Why are Men intimidated by highly attractive females , and why are they insecure once they get them"... glad i did because i got ALOT of great and true feed back ,,, below are some responses i've recived on my facebook page... ...

__*Zadasia Robinson why are guys intimidated by attractive females? , and why are you's insecure once you get them????
30 minutes ago · Comment · Like


__*Dominic Killinthemsoftly Hayward Good Question
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__*Dutch Thakid def good question but i'm not lol
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__*Spud Mckenzz Well you would have to ask a man that not only is both of those things but who is also willing to admit it
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__*Zadasia Robinson yes , well someone needs to because i could never understand it
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__*Dutch Thakid tru @Spud
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__*Kelly Kelz This don't sound true cuz niggas n nj holla at anything LOL
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__*Dutch Thakid ‎.... Not really mama not all of us we gotta match each other can't do the nonsense too busy
22 minutes ago · Like ·

__*Dominic Killinthemsoftly Hayward nahhh not every ni99a in Nj
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__*Zadasia Robinson and the imtimdated one's , act like children they get stuck on what to say , they cant seem to tell the truth , they act a fool , they constantly accuse you of cheating because they think '" your too pretty' and "THINK' your doing something ,,, so for that reason they'll constantly ask you if your doing something just to get all the hype off them... and the gooodlooking guys will have a wall built up "just like a female" because they're scared the "beautiful' female will have either a snobby attitude , expect to much , or they'll feel they cant meet her standards not knowing we dont ask for much at all , ppl are just stupid and backwards these days
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__*Elijah Benjamin Rivers Might be talking about boys and not men, but he might have low self worth, might think someone as beauitful would never give some one like him a chance
22 minutes ago · Like ·


__*Dutch Thakid yo @Zadasia jus tell em THINKING comes from NOT KNOWING!! -splash!!!!!
22 minutes ago · Unlike · 1 person ·


__*Ari Ames Z,
it's simple. being attractive comes along with stereotypes just like dressing a certain way does. when most people look at me, they think i MUST be stuck up and bitchy just bc i'm pretty which is hardly the case and i'm sure that's not the case for you either

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__*Dominic Killinthemsoftly Hayward This is True Zadasia but yu gotta understand its both Female nd Males that think like this
21 minutes ago · Like ·

__*Dutch Thakid tru @dominic good dudes get it the worse cuz most of the ladies think we ALL the same or we too fly or some bs so they end up going left before us most of the time!
19 minutes ago · Like ·


__*Zadasia Robinson im puttig all you guy's responses on my blog btw lol
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__*Dutch Thakid I dont care put it wherever whats the blogspot ?
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__*Zadasia Robinson www.memoriesofabetch.blogspot.com
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__*Dutch Thakid ight ima support mama :-)
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__*Elijah Benjamin Rivers You have to find a man who strong in his own spot, who has confident an feel like he jus as much as the shit as u! If u can intimidate a guy u don't really want him as a equal anyways,
15 minutes ago · Like · 1 person ·

__*Spud Mckenzz A lot of it has to do with insecurity and the way a particular person is..... if a dude attracts a lot of females and he doesn't know how to be loyal to one....of course he is going to assume that an attractive female is the same.


__*Dominic Killinthemsoftly Hayward ‎@Dutch i feel yu brah
8 minutes ago · Like ·


___*Spud Mckenzz A man has to realize that in all reality an Attractive chooses him more so than he chooses her....attractive women have many more options than an attractive man...so if she is with dude he should know how big of a lottery he was picked from lol..that should ease some insecurities
6 minutes ago · Like ·

too good to be true...

Ever been in a situation , where you feel in the back of your mind no matter how "perfect" the situation may seem , the vibe is there , everything seems to just be ON POINT??... when you first get caught up in lust and you begin to finally feel secure and at ease in a situation , not for a second you doubt the thought , get to the point where you pay other females / males no mind what so ever , and then IT FUCKS UP ??? always happens to the best of us , especially females ... now a days finding a companion who is LOYAL , TRUSTWORTHY , FUNNY , GENTLE , yet RUFF AT THE SAME TIME , ROMANTIC BUT NOT TO THE POINT WHERE YOUR IRKED , A FRIEND , SOMEONE YOU CAN COUNT AND DEPEND ON , shit always happens , then you get that feeling where you sit and think " i should have just gone with my GUT feeling" ... there is ALWAYS a reason for the feeling you get in your gut that doesnt just happen for NO reason , pay close attention to LITTLE things ladies , if a man is CONSTANTLY beating in your head the " you better not cheat on me " fuckery , YOU QUESTION HIM!!! and vice versa .... 88 times out of 100 they'll be doing some type of creeping , cheating , soul searching , eye wondering , OF SOME SORT ... its your choice if you want to put up with it however one must be WISE with their decision , everything comes to light eventually i believe people fail to realize that ... theres only so much a women will put up with .... if he looks like a duck , quacks like a duck , chances are hes a DUCK ...

to be continued.....

*A proud heart can survive general failure because such a failure does not prick its pride. It is more difficult and more bitter when a man fails alone.

*why do people persist in dissatifying relationships unwilling to work toward solution or end it and move on , its because they know changing will lead to the unknown , and most people believe that the unknown will be much more painful than what they're already experiencing...

( if you feel insecure in a situation LEAVE ,there will ALWAYS be someone willing when other are lacking , not knowing what comes next is better than a broken heart..)

"yassssssss"

broad is crayyyyyzayyy..(kat "long face "stacks)

Antoine is back , HONEY.

this excite me...

remember this?

crazy broad. lmao

random..

her mentality surpasses anything proposed by those who judge her exceeding both her expectations & age...

"BOO , BABES , BABE , BABY"

Although we all would like not to put so much thought into the words "lovers" give eachother now adays , on the way back from my ever so papping day at Sesame Place i found myself laying down and this thought came to mind " There are soo many differences between boo , babes , babe ,& baby" which stur up a cunty little argument on my status ... which lead me to this blog im currently writing ..soo here they are feel free to comment , argue , curse and such...


BOO- this is one of the few words NO'ONE can call me , unless your a female ofcourse and you hit me with the ever so dredful 'heyyyyy booo' ... as far as ANY male species labeling me as his "BOO" that can never ever never happen , for me BOO is equivalant to "bitch".. it not only shows no respect for the female , it also shows dude has no respect for you , what the hell is a BOO? are you trying to scare someone ? i dont understand ..most of the time there are about 3000 boo's if you are a "boo" believe you arent the only one , have some more respect for yourselves ladies...


BABES- this is short and simple , babes is just a "BOO " dressed in expensive clothing not literally but you guys get my drift , its basically symbolic to NOTHING ... this is another word i dont perticularly "like" BABES is plural , get it together i personally am just not to fancy of the word...

BABE-altough a letter may not seem like a big difference , BABE he/she usually is feeling you , or you guys are on a "talking" level .. meaning he or she is really feeling you , and/or dating ... this is an "okay" word for me ... usually showing some type of respect or care for the other person...usually feel a connection with the person



BABY- this word isnt really thrown around much , however out of the punch this is the most powerful one ... which is used mostly when in a relationship or the ever so dreadful"some what in a relationship'...

my ever so papping thursday night

im 50tyson allday , everyday .

Dear , Miami .... i miss you .. love me

holy molly..

her frigging nipples are hearts <3

"Close those legs broads , crack open a book" _zrobinsonn

if no'one else LOVE YOUSELF...flaws and all

drop the top , no bra...

gasm

MOTIVATION..

selfexplanitory hoe.

me and my DRANK

my baby.

GORGEOUS LADIES , where are you????

My Search , well as you may or may not know i've been throwing little parties /gatherings since my Sweet 16 years back even then more than a handful of people came through ... I am just starting to look seriously into the party business however i DO NOT plan to do all promotional aspects alone my goal is to build a team of GORGEOUS FEMALES to promote for/with me ... girls who aren't about a n y games and have the same amount of ambition i hold .... all you would do is promote events and get paid for it ..This weekend me and my closest friend threw one of the BIGGEST cookouts in JERSEY the outcome was more than expected ...Prior to throwing it , we went in with a plan " WE'LL SEE HOW MANY PEOPLE WE CAN BRING OUT , FROM THERE WE'LL GET THE PUSH TO GO FURTHER" as we expected no doubts in mind we brought the whole city out people from in and out of state ,with a soaring amount of approximately 600+ people .we thought " if we hold the ability to gather this many people for a COOKOUT with planing ONLY for a month imagine what we can do at a club".. i'm young but i know enough i know what i am capable of doing and how to attract a younger & older crowd ... plans on throwing 21+ events as well as 18+.. if i haven't covered enough below you can find how exactly it would work..

HOW WOULD IT WORK . - Im not only looking for gorgeous females i also want you to hold a personality that attract people , know the many different ways to promote , be fun & sexy , i would judge you guys by looking at your pictures some type of natural beauty in some way , a exotic look , and PERSONALITY ... i would also post you ladies pictures and have guys/female judge ( don't be discouraged) they would have nothing to do with the movement...if you are interested and BEAUTIFUL be sure to contact me


- Zadasia I Robinson ....FB:Zadasia Robinson .. Twitter: ZROBINSONN

if you want further information contact me or ( FB ) - Darrin Ramirez .. twitter : DARRINT97

my FAVORITE poem...live this

“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”_Nelson Mandela

ROMANCE QUESTIONS WE ALL WANNA KNOW THE ANSWERS TO....

1. WHY DO GIRLS PUT UP WITH DISRESPECT AND PAIN IN A RELATIONSHIP AND USE REASONS LIKE "I'm IN LOVE", OR WE BEEN TOGETHER A LONG TIME AS EXCUSES??

2. WHY DO GUYS CHEAT ON THEIR GIRL WITH A GIRL WHO CLEARLY HAS NOTHING ON HER PHYSICALLY OR PERSONALITY WISE?

3. WHY DO GIRLS CONTINUE TO DATE A GUY BASED OFF HIS LOOKS, AND THAT SAME TYPE CONSTANTLY CRUSHES HER HEART?

4. WHY DO GUYS LIE TO GIRLS ABOUT SHIT THAT A GIRL CAN EASILY FIND OUT THE TRUE ANSWER TO?

5. WHY DO GIRLS LET THEIR X-BOYFRIEND CONTROL HOW THEY LIVE THEIR LIVES WHEN HE'S OUT WITH OTHER GIRLS HAVING THE TIME OF HIS LIFE?

6. WHY DO 2 GUYS FIGHT OVER A GIRL WHILE SHE'S RUNNING AROUND WITH A 3RD GUY?

7. WHY DO GIRLS TURN AWAY A GUY WHO IS CLEARLY BETTER THAN HER LAST AND DEEP DOWN SHE KNOWS IT BUT SHE STILL GIVES HIM THE COLD SHOULDER?

8. WHY DO GUYS LET THEIR MOTHER'S BE ALL IN THEIR RELATIONSHIP BUSINESS?

9. WHY DO GIRLS BEEF WITH OTHER GIRLS OVER A GUY WHO IS PLAYING THEM BOTH?

10. WHY DO GUYS AND GIRLS MAKE ROMANCE SO DIFFICULT????

AUGUST 14TH , MOVIEEE ...who will i see???

BIGGEST COOKOUT OF THE SUMMER , august 14th "all I see if fireworks" the cookout .music by well known DJ Rydeout , photos by www.urbanmediakings.com , FREE food & beverages, $DRINKSPECIALS$ allnight&much more

-OFFICIAL AFTER PARTY MILK LOUNGE (2056 2nd Avenue, New York, NY 10029) 2 floors Latin & Hip hop 21+ dudes , 19+ females ) movieee

outcome of my rollers

rollah'ssss

BEACH BUMS..

MESSAGE FROM A READER TITLED "IMAGERY"...

WE HAVE TO LEARN AS A PEOPLE TO NOT TRY TO CHANGE THE PERSON WERE WITH, WE HAVE TO UNDERSTAND THAT THAT'S THE WAY THEY ARE..
THAT PERSON MAY NOT BE ON TIME LIKE YOU MAY WANT, THEY MAY MAKE PLANS AND ALWAYS BACK OUT LAST MINUTE AND MAY NOT EVEN GIVE YOU A CALL LETTING YOU KNOW THE SITUATION. THAT PERSON MAY TALK, ACT AND CARRY THEMSELVES A CERTAIN WAY BUT WE CANNOT SPEND OUR TIME TRYING TO CHANGE THEM ITS NOT ONLY A POINTLESS EFFORT, BUT NONE THE LESS HOPELESS.
NOW IN A "REAL" RELATIONSHIP IT TAKES "COMPROMISE" AND COMING TO MANY AGREEMENTS. SOME PEOPLE WILL BE WILLING TO MODIFY A FEW THINGS ABOUT THEMSELVES AND SOME MAY BE TOO SELFISH OR SET IN THEIR WAYS TO EVEN CARE. IF YOU LOVE AND IT DOESN'T EVEN HAVE TO BE THE WORD LOVE, IF YOU "CARE" FOR THAT PERSON DEEPLY THEN YOU CAN EXCEPT THEM FLAWS AND ALL. AS ANNOYING AS IT MAY BE OUT OF YOUR INFATUATION AND FEELINGS FOR THAT PERSON YOUR WILLING TO PUT UP WITH IT... BUT TO ALL THOSE WHO ARE NEVER WILLING TO GIVE IN A RELATIONSHIP LIKE THEY SHOULD THAT IS AN ACT OF SELFISHNESS AND THAT SAYS A LOT ABOUT YOU AS A PERSON. SO EVALUATE YOURSELF, THERE IS ALWAYS ROOM FOR IMPROVEMENT IN ANY PERSON....LET'S LIVE BETTER!!!!

-READER

SPECIAL DELIVERY ...

so me and my sisters , are all laid out on the round chair , the door bell rings ( we HATE answering the door) me-"ya know damn well i don't have any company coming over i'm not moving " ... Lex-" dasia i answered the door already today " ... Gab-" i don't have clothes on im not getting it " ... Me-(grabs flip flops, stomps all the way down the stairs not wanting to answer ) and i see a delivery guy ( its my step dads bday btw) i figure Hey someone ordered Sean flowers ... surprisingly it had my name on it <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 Aren't they beautiful ??? ( blushingggggggg)

PERCH & SNAPP

so doing my daily youtube search , i come across this OVAH video ... perched my lips and snapping my fingers ( while waving) "YASSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS"

difference between JUMPOFF & WIFEY.

many women confuse themselves into believing a situation is more than what THEY SIGNED UP FOR .


Wifey this is the female who he actually TALKS to on the phone , not the one he is trying to hang up on or hits with the 36second phone call just to say "im on my way" ... wifey not only knows but is cool with the family ,she can walk in that house whenever she pleases ... wifey is the person who is PUBLIC to the world who she shows affection to not only behind closed doors, where the JUMP OFF he can walk right passed you but hit you with a text right after...the difference between wifey and the jumpoff .. you'll know you are the jumpoff when you CONSTANTLY nagging , complaining , bringing up WIFEYS name ... the jumpoff is the sour apple bitter bitch rolling her eyes , snickering with her friends , and will have her friends believing you and dude are more then what YOU SIGNED UP FOR..he wants to do things with wifey , gifts just because random text throughout the day things of that nature ... .wifey you feel is irreplaceable you actually care about her feelings , and you find yourself giving a f*ck.. where as to the jumpoff has it set in her mind that she is ALREADY wifey but will NEVER be , if you don't respect yourself darling how do expect dude to?..some men will try the jumpoff and give her a TASTE of wifey's spot but be sure he will be crawling right back .. jumpoffs never understand that the MAN already's knows a jumpoff from a good girl from the start..however, a guy will cheat on WIFEY until he matures and realizes he probably needs her more than she needs him..jumpoff number will most likely not even be saved as her real name ex. NIKKI (phone contact NICK) sad but true...everyone wants to be wifey but doesn't know what it takes...the jumpoff's will claim to E V ER Y O N E but dude that she is "fake" wifey ...if he actually takes the time to MAKE TIME thats usually wifey...he's answering ALL your calls ... and jumpoff is sitting on the other line wondering why he only answers at night ..if you find yourself TEXTING more than you speak/see him & ONLY time you see him you'll end up sexing baby love jumpoff..BUT THEN AGAIN "WIFEY" YOU HAVE TO ASK YOURSELF WHAT ARE YOU DOING WRONG THAT HE FEELS HE WANTS TO HAVE A "JUMPOFF" ON THE SIDE??? hmm jumpoff's you have no right to QUESTION anything he does , you knew what you were getting into from the start , if you are a jumpoff chances are YOUR NOT THE ONLY ONE ,do not feel special ...DO'NOT EVER THINK "WIFEY" IS JEALOUS OF YOU, in fact we probably are disgusted by you , and your savage ways ...

Savage-A human being in his native state of rudeness; one who is untaught, uncivilized, or without cultivation of mind or manners...

_zrobinsonn

BILL THEY HATE YOU?

third assumption this year that Bill Cosby died ... HE IS IN FACT ALIVE.... how could you guys want such an innocent face dead??? sheesh cut my man some slack...

here's a tweet by Cosby himself after continuous assumptions
BillCosby (20minutes ago)

Again, I'm rebuttaling rumors about my demise. But, I'm confirming I have an app - http://bit.ly/BillCosbyApp :)

why females envy..

being a female is a tough job , at times most of us feel as though we have to PLEASE everyone else before we please ourselves , people may hold expectations of you that you feel as though you have to live up to.. WHY DO WE NEED TO BUY A NEW OUTFIT EVERY TIME WE GO OUT? ,WHY DO WE NEED FAKE HAIR?, WHY DO SOME OF YOU'S WEAR MAKEUP TO DO SUCH THINGS AS GO TO THE CORNER STORE?. all because you are trying to impress the next person ..even so called "friends" envy each other one may be fortunate more than the other and although they don't mean it they find it in their heart to be JEALOUS the "friend" may want something that you have already as women we worry about ridiculous things either your breast are too small , or too big..your hair is "dirty blonde" instead of sandy blonde , your hair isn't long enough , your clothes aren't expensive enough.. these are all things media bombard females with today and is the reason we have so much hate in the world they portray every women as being 'perfect' skinny is BONEY , and thick is FAT now a days?? ... Media is constantly telling woman they must compete against one another...when a female buys into the social belief that her beauty ,uniqueness ,and worth is attached to her physical appearrance she simply is overlooking the beauty that lies beneath her skin...so they search else where saying things like " she swear's she's the shit just because she got that , her ass is TOO big ( knowing its just right) , why she showing her titties like that ( knowing her tits are sitting, her sneakers prob fake anyway ( knowing they came out of saks , so what if she doesn't need make up , i wear it because i want . her hair is soo long , her shape is soo right ) this is the number cause in the destruction of most friendships ... people want to be too much like others they forget the beauty they withhold ..females envy because they see something in you that they do not carry in themselves , sad but true they try to live up to standards that men may have the whole "FAT ASS AND FLAT STOMACHS" i never understood why a female felt the need to envy another because of things such as bodies and such THERE ARE GYMS , AND FOR YOU BALLERS SURGERY get it together... females try to impress everyone but themselves they search for 'their" perfection in others when they find it they HATE because they do not have it "/ ...

loyalty , honesty ,trust, humbleness ,faithfulness ,are all boundaries that hold together a healthy friendship ..


the most conceited females are the most INSECURE . humble up ladies keep it classy broads...


_zrobinsonn

get up , get out & get something...

"get up , get out cut that bullshit out ..ain't you sick and tired of having to go WITHOUT?"

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in ten years , hanging on my wall..